What's Your 'Toxic' Friendship Trait?
You made plans with a friend, but you are exhausted. You...
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1. You made plans with a friend, but you are exhausted. You...
- Cancel 10 minutes before with a vague excuse.
- Go anyway, but complain about being tired the whole time.
- Convince them to just come over to my house instead.
- Power through and pretend I'm having the best time.
2. Your friend comes to you with a major life problem. You...
- Listen, but somehow turn the conversation back to my own issues.
- Give them a harsh, uninvited 10-step plan to fix their life.
- Enable their bad decisions because I want the tea.
- Absorb all their trauma until I feel completely drained.
3. When a friend starts dating someone new, you secretly feel...
- Annoyed that they have less time for me.
- Extremely judgmental of their new partner.
- Relieved. Now I don't have to entertain them as much.
- Over-involved. I need to know every detail of the relationship.
4. What's your communication style in the group chat?
- I read everything but never reply.
- I only reply when the topic is about me or my interests.
- I am the one dropping controversial opinions to start debates.
- Spamming the chat and getting mad if no one answers.
5. How do you handle lending things to friends (money, clothes)?
- I never lend anything. What's mine is mine.
- I lend it, but I keep a strict mental scorecard of who owes me.
- I lend things and immediately forget about them.
- I use 'gifts' to buy people's loyalty.
6. Your friend achieves something huge before you do. You...
- Smile and congratulate them, but secretly seethe with jealousy.
- Downplay it slightly to keep them grounded.
- Take credit for it. 'I always told you to do that!'
- Celebrate them so aggressively it makes it about me.
7. When there is drama in the friend group, you...
- Disappear until it blows over.
- Play both sides to gather all the information.
- Pick a side immediately and go to war.
- Try to force everyone to hug and make up instantly.
8. It's your birthday. What do you expect?
- I hate birthdays. Please ignore me.
- A perfectly curated Instagram post about me from everyone.
- I expect everyone to drop their plans and worship me for 24 hours.
- I expect nothing, but I'll be secretly heartbroken if they forget.